Like Butter

The morning’s in slow motion.

7am and beach bound.  I’m driving alone on an empty highway.  Windows down.  Barefoot and in the Brazilian bikini hand-me-down (It didn’t fit her.  It suits me this morning.).

The early air cools bare skin.  Hints of Fall.

By the shore, senses are alive.  The sound of white washing.  Crash.  Hiss.  The mist of sea salt settles on my lashes.  Sinking sand sifts beneath each measured step.  Soft.  Steady.  Slow.

There is no hurry here this morning.  I am the embodiment of leisure.  Dancing with a lover.  Inhaling golden rays that pour from sunrise clouds.

Last week my post-operative jaw was on ice.  Today, I’m warm with give.

Like butter.

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Like This

Inspired by recent “Likes” to some of the Archive posts, I’ve been contemplating this affirming cyber-gesture.  I like it.

What a quick way, with a simple click, that we can offer our fellow humans a little gold star.  Our stamp of approval.  A virtual version of an agreeable nod.

It’s got me considering ways that I can incorporate this small, supportive signal into real life.  What would be an equivalent of ‘liking’ something in 3D?

A tried and true sign would be the old-fashioned smile.  But for too long this one has become stale from politeness and not always a genuine indication of authentic sentiments.

There is the friendly, and sometimes coquettish, wink.  This one can border between like and lust, depending on the giver.

And of course, there is the standard ‘thumbs up’, that hand gesture that signals an A-Ok.  Not really used much in casual social interactions, employing the random thumbs-to-the-sky could result in responses more puzzled than pleased.

Beyond walking through town with a pocketful of stars and distributing them among your favorite strangers, is there a way we can perpetuate the support that comes with the internet Like button?  Some small way that we can give each other that little extra boost that says “Yes!  Keep going.  I like what you’re doing.”  What a different world it would be if we moved throughout our days giving and receiving these encouraging lifts.

For now, I’ll gather my cyber-likes, fill up, and then pass them around.

Virtually, I’ll keep clicking the like button whenever I’m inspired.

In real life…be on the Liking Lookout and show my pleasure through a plethora of third-dimensional options.  A word, a look, a gesture.

I think liking this!

Barometer Reading

Seasons change subtly in the tropics.  The past three mornings have had the slightest chill in the air, a harbinger for autumn, my favorite time of year.

New weather brings fresh perspectives, as my windows to the world reflect the shift in temperature.

courtesy of Shandi-lee