Missing Merlin

“Merlin is missing!!”

That’s my text message yesterday afternoon to the Bohemian, though I know he is most likely far from his phone. I’m standing in our yard, in the rain, next to our chicken’s newly built (and empty) house.

There is no sign of disturbance. The door is still secured with the ties, just as I’d left them. But Merlin is gone.

The next two hours are a slow unraveling. First are the thoughts that’s he’s in the nearby vicinity. I call his name, walk through the wetness to nearby trees, check the garden. I think about how when I find him, I will scoop up that little chick and wrap him in a towel. Get him underneath a heat lamp.

Forty-five minutes later, I’m soaking wet. My eyes have scanned grass clumps and been fooled by countless, dark, Merlin-sized leaves on the ground. Every bird that sings in the drizzle seems to echo at least one chickadee note that squeezes my heart. I strain my ears to sort out what may be his call to me.

There are three cats on the property, not really ‘owned’ by anyone, who lounge here to be fed by our neighbors. They are birders, for sure.

One watches my search, stealthily, from its rooftop perch. The other two linger by the laundry room, following me with strange eyes. I see one lone, small feather by the door. It could be Merlin’s. It could belong to a feral chicken that came to the cat food dish for a snack.

After two hours of searching the acre and a half of our property, I’ve cried three times and begun to accept that Merlin is simply gone.

I can’t help but think that if anyone can find him, the Bohemian can. And when he gets home, we search together, for another hour. The bird songs trick his ears too. I see him go to the same chick-shaped leaves I did, and I watch his hopefulness turn to resign, just like mine.

At a certain point, I pick marigolds and tarragon blossoms and put them at the “Merlin’s House” sign that Jeb made. I make a wish for Merlin.  That wherever he may be, that he is comfortable and in peace.2013-03-25MerlinsHouse

Inside the house we eat warmed up left overs with heavy hearts. We rarely drink, but the Bohemian opens up a bottle of French red and pours us each a glass. Jeb is with his dad this night. It’s just the two of us that toast to Merlin. The little chick that wandered into our life exactly two weeks ago.

His tiny peeps have been such a constant with us these last days, we both keep thinking we hear him as we sit sipping our wine. But as night comes on and the outdoor sounds quiet, we realize the Merlin chirps are just echoes in our heads.

If I was not me, if I was you, perhaps, I would think this all a bit melodramatic. There was a baby chick. Fine. They come a dime a dozen (yes, there can be a dozen hatched and digging in your garden bed with mama hen). As I have said, the locals call them ‘rats with wings’. They are invasive, loud and messy.

If I were you, I may be thinking this all got a little out of hand. A chick in a box in the living room. Given a name. Taken to the beach. The subject of photos, as if it were a family member. I understand if we seem crazy.

He was a chicken for goodness sake.  But there was something truly different about him.  And this surprised me. And even more surprising, was that I came to love that bird, despite myself. He had such a genuine sweetness and all he really wanted was to be with us. As long as we were within his view, he was content.

To be clear, we never wanted to make Merlin a ‘pet.’ We understood that he was a chicken and we wanted him to live his life as such. The time being handled by us in his early chick life, the days inside his small box, were just to nurture him through his most vulnerable time so that he could feather and fly into the big, wide world in all his chickenness.

Hence, the Bohemian and Jeb built him a house, where he would be safe from cats and other wild chickens, but could begin living life outside in the sun. Eating bugs, feeling the breeze. Eventually, as he grew, the door to his coop would be open and he could come and go as he pleased.

He just left earlier than we had planned.

Last night, as our search turned futile, I sifted through my grief and regret to try to find some reason why our family was having this experience. The Bohemian and I sat with our wine glasses and miso soup, reflecting on the impact this little bird had on our lives.

One thing Merlin taught me was a deep lesson about compassion. For years, I’ve observed the wild chickens, especially the roosters, with disdain. It’s not as if I would accelerate my car if I saw one in the road, but I wouldn’t drive with extreme care either. Now, with a little fluffy, tender chick in my grasp, I had a new perspective on their vulnerability. I watched mothers with their babies and  saw chickens in the yard as families, not just pests.

Merlin gave me new eyes and a more open heart. I’m not saying this diminishes the fact that Kauai has an out-of-control chicken population. I’m just saying I see these animals a little differently, because I connected with one.

If you say to someone that a bomb was dropped in a distant country, they may feel sad, or even, possibly indifferent, if they have no connection to that country. But should you tell someone connected to that place, someone who’s walked those streets, met its people, eaten the food, seen its buildings – they would be much more affected to hear the news of its destruction.  And much more likely to try to end the war there.

Where there is connection, there are fewer enemies.

I don’t want to spend much time writing about the guilt I feel in my part of Merlin’s disappearance. Merlin was young and vulnerable and completely trusting his life to us. The Bohemian and I discussed at length our decision to try him in his new coop and we carefully tested the door, feeling confident he could not get out. We may have been wrong in our assessments, but we did our very best.

After plenty of sadness last night, the Bohemian looks to the positive,  saying, “Well, Merlin got an extra two weeks of life he wouldn’t have had, otherwise. And he had a really great time with us. You know, he got a bonus!”

I guess it’s true.  And it does help a bit to look at it this way.

Little did I know yesterday when I posted to the Weekly Photo Challenge “Future Tense”, that my image of Merlin’s House and my words about how it was time to “fly the coop” would be so ironically prophetic.

I did not know what the future truly held for my life with Merlin. That as I walked him to his coop yesterday morning, it would be the last time I felt the soft fluff of his little feathers.

These small treasures are ever-fleeting.  Reminders to receive with full and open hearts and expanded minds.

Enjoy them while they are present. Release with gratitude when they are gone.

I’m going to miss that little bird.

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2 Comments

  1. I think if you are connected to a being you are connected. Period. So It doesn’t matter what kind of being. I wish all the best to little Merlin and thanks for sharing all your thought 🙂

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    1. I’m glad you can understand. Thank you. It’s been a bit of a sad day. Every chicken chirp I hear makes me think of him. Amazing how such a small creature can bring so much sweetness in such a short time.

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