October 13, 2010

It was just me and my neti pot today.

Came down with some sort of head cold last night and have been flushing the nasal passages all day.

I gave my boy a late lunch of pad thai noodle take-out but by now dinner is looking like some beef jerky, a pickle and a glass of milk.  I ponder the fact that I’m blogging here but not making a decent meal for my son.  I made a commitment to post one daily chronicle for 40 days.  Come hell or highly stuffed noses, I’m writing once a day.

Jeb is ready for bed and now I’m going to go curl up with Louise Hay.

October 12, 2010

Jeb’s art is now exploring what I’ve come to term “The Nude Series”.  Yes, sketched characters are now more anatomically accurate (not to mention, exclusively male).

As an artist myself, I encourage him to express himself freely.  But I’ve had to differentiate between what can be drawn in his journals at home and what he can create at school.

Look closely and you’ll see that today in art class the muse overtook him.  However, it appears as though censure prevailed in the shape of an eraser, leaving only a faded remnant in this abridged example.

He says he removed the appendage of his own accord, not because the teacher asked him to.

Part of me is happy that he honored my request to keep the nudes at home.  And part of me grieves to think that the editor – that bane of creativity – has already infiltrated my 6 year old’s world.

I mean, I gotta ask the burning question…what would da Vinci’s mom do?

October 11, 2010

Monday morning started poorly as we readied ourselves for another day of first grade.

There was my son’s refusal to eat breakfast, his insistence on wearing an armful of Silly Bands (the equivalent of elementary school bling), and the cutting and spewing of glow-in-the-dark bracelets (“mom, is my eye yellow?  some of it splashed on my face?” !!!).  All before 8am.

Getting my drama out of the way by 8, however, left room for the rest of an uneventful day (thankfully), which culminated in the evening with the sweetness of music.  All non-toxic (but potentially skin-irritating) day glow goo was forgotten as I watched my son sit on a stool and play Baby.

When Jeb’s father, Rex, emailed me from India in 2002 that he had bought a guitar in Varanasi with the word “Baby” in the headstock, I tried not to take it as a sign of our potential fate.  But I couldn’t help wonder, as his email coincided with a vivid dream I’d had of a child in my womb.

Rex described sitting with sadhus by the Ganges  among the bones and smoking pyres.  The holy men strumming Baby til their fingers bled, leaving stains still visible on its wooden face.

The day after Rex’s return from his mystical India tour, Baby’s portent was realized.  Jeb was born into the world nine months later.

Jeb says, “This guitar has been a lot of places.  It’s pretty powerful…”

Indeed.