October 31, 2010

Jeb and I got a last minute invitation to join our neighbors for Halloween dinner.  Instead of wandering the wild streets of town with mobs seeking to fill their candy bags, we nestled in for the company of good friends.

After dark, an impromptu trick or treat expedition of our own took place on our neighbor’s property.  Fruit leathers instead of chocolate along with Japanese candies were doled out by a Captain Kangaroo character under the lemon tree.  Spooky, real-life tales were shared about a “Kung Fu rat” that once jumped out of a closet and landed on a friend’s shoulder.

At the end of the evening, Jeb and I walked back home together without a flashlight.  The moon was no where in sight.  Jeb walked closely by  my side, very quiet and keeping in exact step with me.  In one stretch of our path we walked through a covering of trees, which made it very dark.  Slowly, step by step, we emerged onto our empty one lane street, a bit lighter with all of the stars shining above us.  Everything was silent but for the crickets and the rumbling surf that crashed on the cliffs about a mile away from us.

Sometimes I get spooked in the dark.  But tonight there was no fear.  And I wanted Jeb to walk beside me and feel that certainty.  The confidence in knowing that we can walk through the dark – sometimes without a light – and we’ll be Ok.  In fact, in these moments of heightened awareness and trust, there’s often something magical to be discovered.

 

October 30, 2010

It’s Saturday and we slept in til 8.

I wake to Jeb standing over me, staring quietly.

I’m out of coffee.  We go to the bakery, then walk to the post office after a morning rain squall.

A rainbow arches and Jeb walks through the gateway.  We’re chewing gum and he’s trying to learn the art of making a bubble.  He wants constant demonstrations and can’t help but cheat and use his fingers.

photo by Jessica Dofflemyer

At home he’s got new seeds for his garden project.  And he’s thinking a second Halloween costume idea could be created this afternoon in time for tonight’s Haunted House party.  Hmmmm….

I’m thinking about the fact that I should wear some kind of costume to the event.  This is the second year that I’ve had the idea to be the woman in Klimt’s masterpiece, “The Kiss.” Yet, time is of the essence and I don’t think I have enough gold.

I promise myself to do “The Kiss” justice next year.

Gustav Klimt - "The Kiss"

October 29, 2010

Highlight of the day:

Dinner with friends at sunset.

Grilled fish
Homemade pasta with basil pesto
Kale salad
Coconut water with lilikoi ice cubes

Kale Salad:
Massage kale leaves (freshly picked from Robin’s garden is optimum) with olive oil and lemon juice until soft.

Add
shredded romano cheese
sliced pickled beets
orange sliced in small pieces
toasted sunflower seeds
salt and pepper to taste